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Catching up!

2012-01-12T17:01:00.000-08:00

Justin, Abraham, and I are officially moved into our home in Auburn! We’ll only be here until May, but we are settled for now and enjoying a few more months in one of our favorite little towns.

Justin has finally begun his student teaching process! When he leaves the school in the afternoon, he heads straight to work. He’s still working as a supervisor for Auburn City Parks and Rec. Thankful he’s willing to work so hard for us, but I do miss him while he’s gone!

Our internet at our apartment complex doesn’t seem to mix well with any of our apple products. So strange! When I can’t take the lack of internet anymore, or need to answer emails, I either go to the public library or visit Justin at work. (I’m doing the latter right now!) Hopefully this glitch will be worked out soon! We also didn’t have room for our TV when we made the move, so my facebook, twitter, and Pandora apps on my phone have been my best buds. Thankful for 3G! I’ll be heading to Mobile next week for shoots, and will definitely have my TV with me as I head back! Then my days won’t be quite so quiet.

Other than twiddling my thumbs, my days have consisted of unpacking boxes, cleaning, organizing, and cooking! I have also gotten pretty good at catching sales/couponing. It’s become a form of entertainment for me, haha! I’ve gotten up every morning with J for breakfast, and to pack his lunch before he leaves. That alarm comes early, but it’s worth it! I’m not one for being couped up all day without much to do, so I treasure that time to visit/do our devotional together. I think I’m most excited about this upcoming week’s shoots for the social aspect! Also, I’ll have something to do with my free time once I get home and have lots of editing to do. It’s the small things!

We’re also very excited that Erica’s twins will be here soon! I just talked to her and was told that her uterus is measuring 44 weeks. Sound miserable?!? Ha! Harper and Hinleigh are still a little too small though- 3.1 and 3.2. Hopefully they’ll hang in there a little bit longer. I know Aunt Bay is excited to meet them when they make their grand entrance!

I hope the New Year has already brought you blessings and happiness!

Now a Mrs.!

2011-12-21T18:34:00.000-08:00

Hi Friends! I'M BACK!

& I'm Married. :)

Justin and I finally said "I Do" on December 3rd, so I've been a wife for a whole 18 days.

Lot's of girls are able to blog their way through wedding plans, but as it turns out, I'm not one of them! I had to streamline my to-do's, and unfortunately Baygel Bites didn't make the list. Post-wedding, however, I've found myself with free time! I'm looking forward to re-connecting with my blogger buddies. :)

For now, I'll leave you with a "Merry Christmas!" Be back soon. Promise. :)

Dallas Recap

2011-09-13T19:42:00.000-07:00

Last we chatted, Justin and I were heading off to Dallas.

Oh Dallas, how I needed you. You definitely came through.

I'm going to tell the story through tweets and photos. Let's begin.

bayleighm2827: At the airport with the 2 flight virgins! @jwm0004 @drossmorgan #dallasbound

jtdean11: Since when do you order a beer and they ask if you want a shot "on the side"

bayleighm2827:@jtdean11 I hear you got a early start on us! This weekend is a marathon, not a sprint!

jtdean11: I'm one of those south africans that can sprint marathons. If you can't keep up you will be left behind!! soo excited!!

drossmorgan: About to fly for the first time. Pray for me. #fierycrash?

ecpwilliams: @bayleighm2827 how on earth have @drossmorgan and@jwm0004 never been on a plane??

drossmorgan: @ecpwilliams @bayleighm2827@jwm0004 I like to keep feet on the ground

drossmorgan: @jtdean11 @ecpwilliams@bayleighm2827 @jwm0004 I think our plane is from the 1960s

jtdean: @ecpwilliams @bayleighm2827@drossmorgan @jwm0004 trust me...drink a lot!!!

Ok. Tweets were more fun in theory. Too much work.

We went out to eat at a neat little place called the porch when we got in dallas. I had the look and smell of an airport, but I tucked away my feeling self-concious because I was so excited to be with my FRIENDS.

I know it could be easy to assume that I have no social life now that college is over. That assumption isn't completely wrong. Pity party being thrown by the brunette lying in her bed before 11:00 at night! Moving on.

After we had dinner and caught up, the boys all went out for the night, and Emily and I met up with Amanda (DA BRIDE) Chasley, and Katherine! We enjoyed a fun drink called skittle sangria. HOLY YUMMINESS.

The next day, we spent the morning visiting, eating lunch, and shopping. (By shopping I mean going to pick up the boys tuxes which happened to be at an amazeballs mall. Way better than anything we have in Mobile, AL. I only did a little damage at papersource. But ugh did I want to do more!)

That night we went to the rehearsal dinner, which was at El Fenix.

The Auburn crowd that made the trip to dallas from all over the country. Says a lot about how great Amanda and Judd are!

Saturday morning, we were treated to the cutest mustache themed brunch at Amanda's aunt and uncle's house. Then we settled into a suite at the hotel to watch the Auburn game!

There's something about seeing my man holding a mimosa that makes me giggle a little.

As favors for the brunch, they made the ~~mistake~~ awesome decision of handing out mustaches. This guy, of course, loved that. I couldn't get him to take it off.

Finally, it was time for the wedding. It was a beautiful ceremony, followed by a super elegant/fun/awesome in every way reception.

We had SO MUCH FUN with our friends. Congratulations Amanda and Judd. Everything was perfect! We love you both so much, and are so blessed by your friendship.

If you want to see some of the photos from Amanda's photographer, be sure to check out her blog! It has a few pictures of the flash mob I participated in, and a funny one of Jus gettin' down on the dance floor.

bayleighm2827: Successful weekend! Ready for dec.#partylikeits2010 @jtdean11@ecpwilliams @willirb @jtdean11@lauralees24 @jwm0004@drossmorgan

Dallas Bound!

2011-08-31T13:26:00.000-07:00

After WEEKS without my man, I finally reunited with him two days ago! WOOP WOOP!

Justin has mostly been busy with work and school, but I'm ok with that. I've even been a good little fiance and sat with him for hours two nights in a row at his job with city parks and rec!

A little photobooth action for ya! haha, taking the easy way out..

I really just enjoy his presence. That is something that I used to take for granted. Before this Summer, we spent 5 years doing literally everything together. Living in different cities has been tough, but I think in the long run it serves as a nice little reminder to appreciate each other's company. All in all, probably a good little experience for us pre-marriage. (That doesn't mean I have to like it, though!)

So, now I'm sitting here, catching up with all of you in bloggerland. Happy for the downtime, but ready for Justin to get off so he can play too!

Today we are flying out to Dallas for the wedding of two dear friends, Amanda and Judd!

It's the first reunion of sorts we've had since everyone went their separate ways in May. That doesn't sound like a long time, but when you spend practically every day with people, you miss them when they aren't around you any more. I couldn't be more excited to see everyone! Plus I'm so excited for both of our friends. THEY'RE GETTING MARRIED!!! & guess who's next??

(I've waited so long to be able to legitimately say that. WE'RE NEXT!)

So, in typical Bayleigh fashion, I almost made a HUGE mistake last night. When I got to Auburn, I realized Justin hadn't packed for our trip yet. Last night while he was at work (they work him so hard... ha) I sat with him and made a list of everything he'd need for our 3 day weekend. Then I headed back to his place to get it all ready for him. We have two friends (Blake and Katherine) who are driving to Dallas, so they were nice enough to let us put pretty much all of our luggage in their car. That way, all we have today is a small carry-on.

One of the last, and most important, things on J's list was his brown dress shoes. I saw the shoe box sticking out from under his bed, quickly grabbed it, and combined it with my shoe bag. We met up with Blake and Katherine, had dinner, packed or belongings in their vehicle, and were on our way.

On the way home, Justin said "I'm really glad that you didn't just stuff my shoes into the duffel bag with every thing else. I wouldn't want them to get smashed." Feeling proud of myself, I said "Yea, I knew you'd feel that way so I left them in the box!"

"Did you put them in the box, or did you just grab the box?"

"I just grabbed the box..."

Turns out, we had to make a trip out to Blake and Katherine's house, because this is what was in that box:

But how could you get angry with such an innocent face staring at you, right?

No one could understand how I didn't realize the box wasn't filled with shoes... but the truth is I don't normally shake shoe boxes. So shoot me.

The GOOD news is we realized in enough time. 'Cuz if Justin had a box full of screw drivers instead of Johnston and Murphy's... it would have been bad. Disaster AVERTED.

In other news, OUR TICKETS GOT UPGRADED TO FIRST CLASS. So we'll be in the baller club on the way home Sunday.

Please pray for safe travels for all of our buds! Both those traveling by air, as well as those on the road. Also please pray for nerves, as it's the first flight for both Justin and our friend Ross, and they're both on the plane with me. ;)

enjoy the present

2011-08-29T22:08:00.000-07:00

Children have neither past nor future; they enjoy the present, which very few of us do.

~Jean de la Bruyere

I took this picture of sweet Kennadie after she'd been stuck in the car over 2 hours. (With the exception of a few bathroom stops, where she may or may not have been bribed with various candies, and her all time favorite treat- SPRITE. Potty training is no joke and I'm not above a bribe where necessary. Just sayin!)

Anywho, she'd been locked up in the car, was looking for the fish in "orleans", and didn't understand what was taking so dang long. (We were going to the aquarium the next day.) When we got out at the rest stop, we thought we'd walk around a little bit, make another potty stop, and be on our way.

Instead a session of playing tag, rolling in the grass, and full on giggle fest insued.

Kennadie, thanks for reminding me to even enjoy bathroom stops. You are such a joy and a blessing, and I have a lot I can learn from your crazy self! Here's to many years of laughter and special moments that catch me off guard.

99 days!

2011-08-26T20:28:00.000-07:00

99 days until this guy is my husband!

99 days until I'm a Mrs.!

NINETY NINE DAYS!

I'm 1, 953 days into this relationship. That's 64 months.

I can handle 99 days. :)

AHHHHHH!

2011-08-22T07:04:00.000-07:00

I have some big BIG news from our family front....

In case you're new around here... that's not me, but my sister Erica and her man Chance.

AND THEY'RE HAVING TWINS!!

See? There are 2 in there!

Babies are a blessing, so twins just make DOUBLE the blessing! (and fun!) Of course it's extra exciting for Justin and I because we get to have fun and then send them home. ;)

I'll keep you updated as we find out the sexes, and my bank account is drained, ha!

Dear Ames

2011-08-17T07:57:00.000-07:00

Hi Ames.

You are one interesting guy. I don't think rich intellectuals can get much more awkward than you. & it's not your clothes that make you so awkward. In fact, on the right hunk, your wardrobe could actually work.

I will give you this though- people should look similar to you in front of reality cameras. It must feel so strange. However this is the second time you've graced us with your presence on reality television, so it may be time to loosen up.

However what you did on your final episode of bachelor pad made the women of America swoon.

Thank you. For a fleeing moment, I was able to forget that I waste my Monday nights, week after week. The hopeless romantic in me loves when some of the couples actually make it!

LOVED. THIS. EXIT.

Too bad you reportedly broke her heart. I'm waiting to the finale for confirmation before I choose to hate you for that.

;)

Praise Report!

2011-08-05T19:35:00.000-07:00

I just wanted to let you all know that my sweet friend Bayleigh Phillips, who I've asked for prayers for on multiple occasions, got good news. FINALLY!

For the first time since she was diagnosed with a brain tumor 5 years ago, she has shrinkage. PRAISE THE LORD! I literally had tears of happiness when I found out earlier this week. Bayleigh is one of the most precious, courageous people I have ever had the honor of knowing. If anyone deserves good news, it's her. I don't know how she has continued to smile through all she's gone through- time and time again she's been faced with news she didn't want to hear. But this week was her time to see a glimpse of the "super miracle" everyone has prayed for. I can't wait to watch as her testimony continues to unfold!

Bayleigh, I love you! I am so thankful for all you have taught me throughout our friendship. You're the best name twin I could ask for! ;)

Wedding Countdown- 4 months

2011-08-05T06:12:00.000-07:00

EEK! It seemed like the big day would never get here, and here we are just 4 months out! I thought I'd give you guys a little update, and preview of the fabulous vendors you'll see around making the magic happen. :)

PHOTOGRAPHER:

It's no surprise to anyone that I booked my photographer first. I know how quickly even a newcomer like me books up, so I knew it was important that I get my date settled! This was also my first budget buster... but I think it helped my parents grasp what was to come, ha!

Meet Jaclyn and Bill! They are the people behind the lenses at Robinson Studio and Design. They are on the Grace Ormonde Platinum vendors, so you know that means they are kind of fabulous. Aside from their awesome work, Jaclyn and I instantly connected. I know the importance of getting along with your wedding photographer- I am with brides from beginning to end on their day. After we chatted for about 2 hours (a little was even about the wedding, ha!) I knew she was our girl! I also know that Justin will love having Bill follow him around all day- they can both secretly curse me for having our wedding the day of the SEC championship. (SORRY! I DIDN'T KNOW!) You can check out their website at the link above, or "like" them on facebook here!

WEDDING PLANNER/COORDINATOR

Ladies and gentlemen- Susie is the lady of the hour. I was getting too bogged down in all of the little details, and everyone in my family was too busy to get everything straightened out. Insert Susie from A Plan to Remember. Initially, we just planned to utilize her coordinating services. But after more thought, my Mom decided we should let her take a bigger role (which I was all for!) Not only has she helped me locate the resources I need for my vision (which she TOTALLY gets and is able to see herself), she will be decorating everything the day of the wedding. I'm SO happy that my family and friends can enjoy themselves rather than rush around, and I can relax because I fully trust Susie and her team!

VIDEOGRAPHER

I knew from the get-go I wanted a videographer. A lot of people go back and forth on this one, and a lot of times ultimately cut it. But I'm in the "memory making" business, and therefore I felt this was important. I was having a hard time finding exactly what I wanted, until Jaclyn recommended Lafe from Lifehouse Productions. I met with him and was sold! I'm so happy that Justin and I will have video and photos that we can always treasure.

Side note- if you're planning your wedding and going back and forth on this one, take my advice and bite the bullet! 85% of the weddings I'm at where a relative is supposed to film, either the battery runs out, someone forgets to pull out their camera, or the tape was messed up. Seriously- it rarely goes right!

CATERING

I think doing the catering tasting was Justin's favorite part of this whole process! We went with Tyner's catering, and I couldn't be more excited. They are so sweet, and worked with us to find something that both Justin and I liked, but wasn't too plain. (Turns out we don't have very advanced palettes, haha!) I can't wait for our guests to taste the food! (Make sure you try their hot chicken casserole. It's their specialty and to die for!)

VENUE

I think most of you know the story of our venue woes- so we won't get into the depressing details. ;) Seriously though, if losing a venue is my biggest worry, LIFE IS GOOD! When we had to find a new venue this past October, EVERYTHING was booked. Everything. Every church, every receptions site- literally every call left me frustrated. My Dad kept recommending Pelican Landing, which I was against. My heart was set on downtown Mobile, not Moss Point, MS. However when all else failed, he won. Now I'm happy with the option. We have a lot of ways we want to spruce it up, and overall it is a blank canvas. I can't wait to see my ideas come to life!

BAND

Another vendor my dad won out on- the band. (Turns out that you get ultimately get to win whatever you want when you are the one paying..) SO instead of continuing to argue over who would do the music, my dad just kind of booked his choice. CC and the Midnight Groovers.

(Via my Mom's fb page after they saw them at a Mardi Gras event.)

To my parents' credit- they seemed to enjoy themselves.. my wedding will be nothing if not interesting!

CAKE

For our cake, we went with Tanya at The Cake Designer LLC. She's a small operation, but exactly what I wanted. I didn't want someone who would be doing 25 other cakes on December 3rd. She's also providing some other treats for the dessert table. :) Can't wait for you to see/taste everything!

HAIR

Beth Hatchett is my cousin Sherry's best friend, and has been cutting my hair since I was about 5 years old. She was the only logical choice of who would be with me the morning of my wedding!

Isn't she cute? She's fun too- I know she'll have me laughing the whole time.

MAKE UP ARTIST

For make up, I went with Tiffanie Park. We aren't actually doing our trial until the day of my bridals at the beginning of October. Here's hoping she can make me look lovely!

FLORIST

I'm trusting the florist that Susie is recommending, but I haven't actually met with her yet. (She's on my list of people to call, don't worry!) Stay tuned for that one...

Notice anything missing? Like an officiant, perhaps? Justin and I have had a hard time nailing down a decision on that one, because who we really wanted will not be able to make the trip. We are very open to suggestions if you have someone in mind!

I think I've rambled on enough for now. I have to actually get to business on all of my little projects in the coming weeks, so look for more posts on those. The invitations are in, so I MAY try my hand at calligraphy.. we shall see..

HAPPY FRIDAY!!!

Not made for Hollywood.

2011-07-30T22:19:00.000-07:00

I just thought I would start this post with a pretty. :) This was yesterday's bride, Amber! I swear I don't stalk out these gorgeous girls, I'm just lucky enough to have them come to me. ;)

SO, while we're on the subject of all things bride... I have a question. Why did no one mention to me the horribly humiliating experience of having old videos surface for the wedding slideshow? I mean SERIOUSLY. The videos from when you are 3 are cute. The videos from 8th grade, when you got a new karaoke machine and think you are Britney Spears? Not so much. Unfortunately, I was quite the little ham, so there is an unlimited supply of ammunition.

My brother has officially taken my killer rendition of "When I Think About Elvis" (complete with booty pops and a swinging microphone) hostage to save for a rainy day. I DIE. Am I the only one who set myself up for this type of embarrassment back in middle school?

I have lots of wedding updates for you... but I think I'll wait until the 3rd, when we celebrate officially being 4 months away! :) Sorry for the short post, I just want to get back in the swing of things so I'm taking baby steps. ;)

Hi.

2011-07-28T22:26:00.000-07:00

Well HELLO out there! It's been a while, eh?

I decided that since there is nothing I hate more than school, I should probably get rid of the distraction that is blogger while I was wrapping up my final semester. (Otherwise, it probably would have been my not-so-final semester on the plains!) But guess what..

I SURVIVED!

and today was the last day of my internship... I SURVIVED THAT TOO!

So what does post-college life look like for me? I'm not really sure yet... Tomorrow I'm shooting a wedding, and that's as far as I've gotten.

This summer held a lot of highs, and a lot of lows, but things are starting to line up. (Slowly but surely!) I have a few HUGE bits of news that aren't allowed to be plastered on the net as of now... but wait for it because it may just make you smile. :)

All in all, I'm happy to move onto the next chapter of life. Stay tuned ladies, cuz I'm back!

Save the Date!

2011-03-21T08:58:00.001-07:00

As many of you know, the beginning of wedding planning for us was rough. After site changes, we were left with a date change, which meant that the hours (I mean HOURS) of work I'd done on my cute diy save the dates went to waste. Blah. I almost said to heck with that, people can just get the date from their invites. ;) BUT alas, we are having a December wedding, so I knew it was important to get the date out so that the people we love won't plan their holiday parties, etc on December 3.

Instead, I went to good ole photoshop, and went with the double sided cards from WHCC. I've ordered products from them for photography, so I knew that they would have good quality printing. They may not be as cute as our original option, but they got the job done, and I'm pleased. :)

It actually worked out well having envelopes, because I was able to pop them into the printer, rather than having to hand address them if they were postcards. We also won't have many Auburn nods in our wedding, so we were happy we could throw in a little orange and blue here. :) Now that they have been sent and received, that can be marked off my list. hooray!

We hope to see many of you on December 3! :)

Could be a crackhead....

2011-03-17T12:22:00.000-07:00

It's St. Patrick's day, so what better day to celebrate the video that brought my home town so much attention?

So proud... ;)

A sad and a happy

2011-03-05T07:32:00.000-08:00

I woke up this morning and the first thing that came to mind was Britan. I don't know how my mind knew it had been a year so early in the morning, but it did. Everyone misses you, B!

& now something to bring a smile to your face! I know Britan would have loved this too. We danced together, and she loved it so much! This little girl is just too adorable.

Today I hope you hug somebody you love, and find a reason to laugh! :)

Emily's Bachelorette Weekend

2011-03-04T10:55:00.001-08:00

This past weekend, I flew to Dallas, TX for my friend Emily's bachelorette party! It was so much fun to be able to spend girl time with some of my favorite ladies. :) Emily is so sweet and precious, and it was great to be able to have a few days just to celebrate her!

On Friday night, as everyone started to get in, we hung around the house and had girl talk. Those of you that know me know I'm always with boys (since Emily and Amanda grew up and left me here...) so I LOVED all the estrogen that was surrounding me!

On Saturday morning, we woke up to mimosas. YUM! We played some games, had more girl talk (can you ever have too much?) and then went out for manis/pedis! After that we relaxed until it was time for Em's lingerie shower.

How cute is she? Can't wait to see her in white!

Before heading out for the night!

We went for dinner at Sambuca's (?). It was fun! they had a dance floor and band, so we were able to enjoy dinner and dancing.

After dinner, we went to a bar that had karaoke. So much fun!

This is Lauren! She was the friend who did Justin and I the big favor of getting us into Jordan Hare for our engagement photos last year.

You all know/have seen Amanda around my blog before. Can't wait for her wedding in September!

And lastly, meet Bearcat! The most entertaining performer of the evening.

Toomer's Corner

2011-02-16T22:59:00.000-08:00

On January 10, 2011... an amazing thing happened. Auburn University- MY school, MY team, MY classmates brought home the NATIONAL CHAMPIONSHIP. It was so surreal- there had been 53 years worth the students who had dreamed of living the moment we were living. Here I was- a senior, sharing it with friends I love, watching it unfold. How awesome is that?

As Wes made his field goal, I completely lost my mind. I remember running out of the bar in downtown Auburn where we were watching the game. I remember running into (and embracing) my sister Erica.

Then we turned our faces towards the ultimate celebration spot: Toomer's Corner.

I remember screaming, and yelling, and laughing, and dancing, and celebrating, with 1,000's of fellow Auburn fans. No one could believe what was going on. Boys weren't hiding their tears.

Girls couldn't help but let out squeals. It was such a moment of Euphoria shared by the Auburn family.

This wasn't the first time my friends and I tore towards Toomer's corner out of celebration- many precious memories have been made there over the years.

Even before I was a student, I came here with my family. That's not a rare story- so many of the Auburn faithful grew up coming to this same spot.

When Harvey Updyke poisoned our oak trees, he crossed the Alabama-Auburn rivalry lines.

There is no tradition like Toomer's Corner anywhere else in college football. Those who have experienced it will agree with that fact. I'm not asking for the UA nation to understand it, just to respect it.

My point isn't to speak badly about the entire Alabama fan base here. Mr. Updyke was one man. One sick, twisted man. While I'm frustrated with the Bama fans who are standing behind him and making jokes about his act, I have also gained respect for those who have said they are disturbed and sorry that one of their own commited this act of hatred.

I almost feel dramatic being so upset over trees- I'm sure from the outside looking in, we look a little crazy ourselves. But Toomer's corner has a spirit about it that can't be denied. A few of my friends have joked that they feel like the trees are alive, like Grandmother Willow in Pocohontas.

At the end of the day, it is just sad. Really, really sad. They will replace the trees. The tradition will continue. & I'm fairly certain that at the end of the day, this is just one more challenge that will pull the Auburn family closer together. But the trees have stood for over 130 years. They've seen so many happy faces. So many college students, just like myself, celebrating with the friends that became family.

In 3 months, I'll be moving on from my life here in Auburn. These four years I've been so blessed with in this town will be a big, fun, amazing blur. However, certain aspects of this experience will stick out from the the rest, and my moments at Toomer's are on that list.

"It is understandable to feel outrage in reaction to a malicious act of vandalism," Gogue said. "However, we should live up to the example we set in becoming national champions and the beliefs expressed in our Auburn Creed. Individuals act alone, not on behalf of anyone or any place, and all universities are vulnerable to and condemn such reprehensible acts."

-Jay Gouge, Auburn University President

BEST WEDDING TOAST EVER

2011-02-15T18:30:00.000-08:00

I've always loved musical theater, and if I could sing, I would have most likely pursued it.

But I can't. So being a dancer is where it had to stop for me.

I think this is why I love gLee so much!

& also why I think this is so. freaking. cute.

(You might want to skip to about a minute and a half.)

Happy valentines day!

2011-02-14T08:44:00.000-08:00

Happy Valentines Day love birds!

& a special "I love you" to my valentine!

P.S.- If you want a smile, go check out last years valentines post! :)

Home office day dreaming

2011-02-01T20:57:00.000-08:00

As a college student and photographer, I have to admit that I'm guilty of curling up on the couch in a blanket, mac in my lap, and will work well into the night. (With shows such as sex and the city and the bachelor playing in the background. Ok not the bachelor- it requires my full attention. But I've seen S&TC enough to 'watch' without watching...) anyway....

When I leave Auburn in May, and especially once my summer internship is over in August- that has to end. As I transfer into "wife mode", I have to be able to give Justin the attention that he deserves from his lady, and that doesn't include me slaving away in lightroom while he is watching t.v., or trolling football message boards.

SO, if I'm going to have a home office (because theres no way we can afford rent on a home and a office space), I'm going to have to be able to separate work and home. When I'm in my office, I'll be in work mode. When I walk out, I'll be in wife mode. Of course this means I've been on the search for inspiration!

This glam home office hits it pretty close to what I want. These are the colors of my marketing for weddings, and I hope to be able to carry them into my office space. Also, as a photog, a wall full of photos is a necessity. :)

I also really love the desk and the chair! I know one thing that I want is to have my desk away from the wall. For some reason a desk against the wall makes me restless. Weird?

I'm not crazy about the lime green, but I like the clean lines and modern feel. And that the desk is away from the wall.. haha!

{via}

I LOVE this space. I like how everything has a place, and that there is a desk and a work space, separate from each other.

{via}

This isn't logical for me, because I'm dealing with expensive equipment and people's photos, but how adorable is this shed-turned-home office? I love the idea of having a work space outside!

I have my eye on specific pieces, but we'll save that for another day. What would you guys like in a home office space? I'll keep you updated on mine!

Bridal Show

2011-01-27T17:05:00.000-08:00

This weekend, I made a quick trip to Mobile. While there, my Mom and I headed to the "Wedding of a Lifetime" bridal show. At the end of the day, a grand prize winner got a $37,000 wedding. That winner wasn't me... but considering I've never won so much as a game of BINGO- I'm not shocked.

Anyway, I had a great time! While I already have booked many vendors, it was still really fun for me to walk around and talk to the different wedding professionals in Mobile. PLUS, I may of may not have been forming ideas of how I would decorate my booth in a couple of years. ;)

I do have to say, the most fabulous booth goes to my talented and creative photogs- Bill and Jaclyn Robinson! Check out their images of it here.

At the end of the show, we ran into 3 of my best friends from middle school. It was so funny- and a full circle moment to have us all together, while planning our wedding. Like I said to the 3 of them- "We're such adults!" ;)

I had fun with you girls- we should see each other more often!

update...

2011-01-26T21:40:00.001-08:00

LIFE UPDATE:

-I haven't been on blogger in almost a month. Is this real life?

-That means that I've been kind of busy.

-I still hate school. THANK YOU JESUS it's my last semester.

-I'm completely caught up on my photography editing/mailing.

(I'm impressed with the above statement.)

-For the wedding, I've booked- photographer, videographer, venue, caterer, and almost a band.

-I got netflix. & I watch pointless stuff like GREEK.

-Justin is still fabulous.

-I've asked almost all of my bridesmaids. I have 2 to go. I'm making this last over a few months because it's fun and I don't want it to be over.

How have all of you lovely ladies been?

Christmas break!

2011-01-05T19:27:00.000-08:00

Tomorrow I head back to Auburn! I just thought I'd share some photos from the break. :)

Murray Family Christmas Party

Erica and I with the newest addition to our crazy family... Trey Michael!

A few of the ladies in our family who all happened to show up in the same colors!

Justin and I with my cousins Kenny, Sherry, and Christina

My Daddy looooves babies! We promise to do our best to give you grandkids one day. ;)

The Murray Fam!

I love to hold a sleeping baby! We stayed long after we originally planned, simply because I didn't want to give this sweet boy up!

Christmas Eve

Justin and I both have pretty specific traditions with our family for Christmas eve.. we're not sure how we're going to work it out for next year just yet. ;) A few photos of my family after Christmas Eve mass!

Christmas with my Mom's side

Cookie decorating

We decorated cookies with Kennadie this year! Afterward, she put on a show for all who would watch. (Her fav activity at the moment!)

Oops.. too many spins!

And one more with my favorite girl!

I hope your Christmas was filled with just as many smiles! I'm actually excited to get back on a schedule at school next week. Last semester- bring. it. on. ;)

Day at the Zoo

2011-01-04T07:25:00.003-08:00

Over Christmas break, we took a trip to the New Orleans Zoo with Justin's family.

We saw some flamingos...

The elephants...

and a vampire.

Wait, what?

Yes ladies.. hang on to your panties here. We ran into Jackson Rathbone, aka JASPER CULLEN while trying to let Kennadie pet the goats.

Apparently, his band was having a photoshoot. They are shooting the new twilight movie in Baton Rouge, so I guess New Orleans wasn't too far for him to travel. So, once they were done shooting this location, what's a girl to do? Encourage her future sister-in-law to bring her daughter over to him for a picture of course

Kennadie actually watches twilight.. she calls it 'boys'. Pretty good name substitute for a one year old... way to use context clues! Ken (Justin's brother-in-law) tells this to him as he hands his daughter over. He scoops her right up and says "Hi Kennadie! My name is Jackson!" Then he's ready to pose for their picture. Only problem was that Kennadie walked in that petting zoo with the promise that she'd be petting goats, and by God that child was going to pet a goat!

We all laughed, he joined in, and now she is the only baby I know that is sitting on a handsome hollywood actor's lap while petting a goat. Once he handed her back over, I thanked him, and they were on their way. SO number 18 on my list, "Meet someone famous", got checked off in a very unexpexted place!

A few more pictures from our day-

Kennadie was attached to her Uncle Justin all day!

"Hey Bimba!"

Audrey and sweet baby Shelton!

"What's a Tiger say?"

Group shot with Justin's family

(Ken's mom and sister also made the trip! They just aren't in this picture.)

Kennadie with her Poppy as we left the zoo.. so sleepy!

It was such a great day! We had beautiful weather, Kennadie entertained us all day, and both babies held up from about 10-3:30 even though they didn't get a nap. Just another reason our niece and nephew are the best. :) We parted ways after the zoo, and Jus and I went with his parents and brother Tyler to downtown New Orleans.

We enjoyed good food, jazz music, and ended the night with beignets from Cafe du Monde! This was number 52 on my list.. which I didn't even remember! I wish I would have taken pictures of them now. :) Either way, it's done, and they were delicious!

2011 goals

2011-01-03T11:45:00.000-08:00

1. Become a wife.

2. Expand my makeup collection from the same products I've worn since 11th grade.

3. Blog more.

4. Project 365..

5. Be the best lady I can to Justin.

6. Exercise at least twice a week.

7. Learn to make my Grandma's Chocolate cake

8. Keep wedding plans organized...

9. Continue to expand Bayleigh M. Photography!

10. Find joy in the little things.

Happy Birthday, Justin!

2010-12-30T17:36:00.001-08:00

Happy birthday to my best friend, and the love of my life, Justin!

Not sure whether I did something right, or you did something wrong... but either way I'm so glad that I got blessed with a guy like YOU! ;)

Here's to the last time you'll have a birthday without a wife!

You may keep getting older, but I'll always see a piece of this kid in you. ;) That's ok though, b/c I know you'll always see me as your Baygel! I hope that your 22nd year is the best one yet.

Love you too much for words!!!!!!

Merry Christmas Eve!

2010-12-24T22:36:00.000-08:00

It's a weird feeling, knowing it's the last Christmas Eve you will spend under your parents' roof.

Merry Christmas, from the safety of the bedroom I've grown up in. :)

May it be full of love and memories for each of you.

Love never fails.

2010-12-20T20:02:00.000-08:00

Recently, someone in my family who I love very, very much has been going through something impossibly hard. While listening to her heart, I constantly have been reminded of the following verse. My prayer is that hatred which has been shown to her will one day be regretted, and that the hearts of those in her life will be softened. I also pray for strength for her to continue to stand up for herself, her freedom to make her own life choices, and that she will hold onto those who love her unconditionally.

⁴ Love is patient, love is kind.

It does not envy,

it does not boast,

it is not proud.

⁵ It does not dishonor others,

it is not self-seeking,

it is not easily angered,

it keeps no record of wrongs.

⁶ Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.

⁷ It always protects,

always trusts,

always hopes,

always perseveres.

⁸ Love never fails

1 Corinthians 4-8

I love you too much, sweet girl!

SEC championship

2010-12-08T17:44:00.000-08:00

This past weekend was so amazing. I have never loved Auburn more than I did in the Georgia Dome Saturday celebrating our victory. Oh. My. Gosh.

Rewind.

Sara, Jake, and Justin arriving in ATL

Sara, Jake, Justin, and myself left for Atlanta early Saturday morning. We made great time, and only had a couple of hours to kill before the game.

After walking around a little, we realized that we were are really, really hungry! So we headed to get a little bit to eat. Justin got pizza and noticed something interesting...

A bite, complete with teeth marks! One of our friends told us that a lady brought her pizza back up to the counter saying that it was too cold, and they just put it back in the oven. Bon Appetite, Justin! He's such a trooper, he ate his pizza anyway. I would have immediately brought it back!

After we finished eating, we headed to the SEC fan fare.

Once we were done exploring, we went to find our seats!

Justin and I had awesome seats... 7 rows up. Sara had better seats- on the front row!

So close to the field!

The game was unbelievable. We killed USC. I loved every second of it!

When there was about 8 minutes left on the clock, Justin and I joined Sara and Jake on the first row so that we could be there for the celebration. As soon as the game ended, craziness broke out!

Players were jumping in the stands, we were screaming, we were hugging, we all basically temporarily lost our minds.

Eric Smith and I actually had a social work class together this semester, haha!

Mike Dyer celebrating the win!

Right after high fiving Cammy Cam!

Justin somehow managed to snatch up one of the famous "SEC" symbol signs from a football player in the madness. Now I have to figure out what to do with this thing, which Justin says we can never get rid of. Men!

We were in 2 newspapers that we know of!

This photo was in a newspaper in Northern LA, on the front of the sports section.

This photo was on the front page of the sports section in the Huntsville Times!

It was SERIOUSLY one of the most fun days of my life. I could just bust with happiness thinking about it! So thrilled that Auburn will be going to the National Championship for the first time since 1957... and its my senior year. Amazing!

War Eagle friends!

Thankful.

2010-11-30T18:46:00.001-08:00

I have so many things I want to blog about, that I've been overwhelmed about what to talk about first!

Thanksgiving break was marvelous. I worked a little (A middle school cheerleading squad, a senior boy, a senior girl, and a sweet family with a 4 year old boy!), but I still had plenty of time to just r e l a x. Such a nice concept, right?

By relaxing I mean running around Mobile with my fabulous friends, not sitting around my parents house but HEY- I'll relax my way, and you can relax yours. :)

Highlights:

Watching Harry Potter 7 part 1 with this girl:

(Justin and his brother Tyler as well, but I didn't get a picture with them that night. I'm sure they're very upset that they aren't being highlighted here. #yeahright.)

Speaking of that little hash tag there- I got a TWITTER! and I now think in twitter terms. Follow me- bayleighm2827. :)

Anywayyyy

I got to love on this little guy.

lub those cheeks!

Justin and I got do thanksgiving with both families this year! Usually I'm with my family in the morning, and Justin is with his Mom's family in the morning. Then in the afternoon, we both go to his Dad's side of his family. Then this year I had a wait-a-minute moment and decided we should fix this. SO we did Thanksgiving lunch with his family, and had some yummy Chili with my family for dinner. We just didn't want to do big meals twice and one day. Could become a new tradtion. :)

Since it was the night before the iron bowl, we pulled out the 8 foot Aubies. Yes I said that plural. My Dad really loves Auburn.

Erica and I prepared our black friday list, and decided we would keep it simple and efficient. We made a awesome pair, it was fun and easy honestly! We checked off everything on our list. Left the bed at 2:15 and were back in it a little after 6. :)

Justin and I originally planned to go to Tuscaloosa for the Iron bowl, buuut then we had this fairytale season SO plans changed. We instead put that money toward our SEC championship tickets. Watch for me on TV! I'll be on row 7 close to the goalpost. I'd say I'll be wearing orange buuut so will everyone else. I may tweet the outfits of Justin, Sara, and myself that day so you'll be able to spot us! That's why you should follow me- bayleighm2827! (Can you tell I don't enjoy being a loser on there? haha!)

I digress. :) Because we didn't go to Tuscaloosa, we were able to enjoy the big game from home. Did you watch it? Holy moly. Unbelievable. I could post 4 posts just on my thoughts on the game but I'll leave it at this- I'm so proud! And so thankful that this is my senior year. Just makes it a little sweeter. :)

After the Iron Bowl, we enjoyed a little celebration of fun and friends in downtown mobile!

I just can't get enough of my best friend!

Amanda was in town! It just makes my heart smile to be with one of my favorite friends. :) LOVE YOU! Boo on Dallas. Just kidding, as long as you promise to visit Justin and I everytime you go see Judd's family in the future. :)

Cute, right?

We headed out to watch Joelle and her band, the Underhill Family Orchestra. I'm so proud of her! She was awesome. I'm so lucky to have both of these ladies as bridesmaids to stand by me on my big day. :)

(Yes, my beat bama pin can be spotted. I kept on all night, haha!)

Isn't this adorable? Sara got in on the Underhill face paint action. :)

I loved everything about this night!

There were more people around us who were special, but I either didn't get a picture with them OR I don't think they'd like them posted. :)

So that is the cliffnotes version of last week. I hope each of you had a wonderful week as well. Watch for BIG wedding news. I mean BIG. :)

See you later, Auburn!

2010-11-19T13:33:00.000-08:00

Abraham says "Goodbye Auburn, see you next week!"

So thankful to have a wonderful group of family and friends to visit for the holidays.

P.S.- Justin came across this online today...

Iron bowl week has officially begun. :)

Happy Friday everyone!

Prayer Requests!

2010-11-18T22:57:00.000-08:00

I hope you will find the time to pray for these special ladies.

Bayleigh is about to start radiation. (The chemo didn't work as well as they'd hoped) Please pray for peace, minimal side effects, and that her brain tumor will stop growing/DISAPPEAR!! She's fought this long enough!

www.caringbridge.org/visit/bayleighphillips

A couple of weeks ago, I celebrated when Taylor was finally announced to be cancer free! Unfortunately, her cancer has returned. Please pray for peace for her and her family, for the doctors to assist her family in making the right decisions for her care, and for her complete earthly healing! She is so strong and has been through so much. I just want both her and Bayleigh-bop to be able to enjoy being a teen, like they deserve. CANCER SUCKS.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/taylorhendrix

Another special lady in need of prayers is Vee, from Everyday Kings. She tragically lost her husband a little over a week ago. Please pray for peace and strength for this incredible woman! She has 2 sweet babies and one on the way. My heart just breaks for her.

"When my world is shaking, Heaven stands.

When my heart is breaking

I never leave Your hands"

-JJ Heller, Your Hands

Because I'm not the coolest.

2010-11-18T19:11:00.000-08:00

I am currently avoiding studying for a test and writing a paper... both by tomorrow a.m. BLAH.

So what's a girl to do? Go to your blogger reader, duh.

I stopped by Laura's blog, and she had this cute little survey. I'm on a "Justin's so fabulous" kick today because he did some really great things for me. (& he's wrapping the day up by making me cinnamon rolls. Yes this is real life. No he is not for sale.) Anyway, I figured that since he's so great I would take this fun little survey. Thanks for helping me procrastinate, friend! :)

1. What are your middle names?

SuzAnne and Wayne. I always hated my name, but Justin used to call me Bayleigh Sue, which made it grow on me a little. Wayne is after his Daddy, Joel Wayne.

2. How long have you been together?

4 years, 7 months. Time flies.

3. How long did you know each other before you started dating?

A week. It was 11th grade, things went fast back then.

4. Who asked who out?

A very NERVOUS Justin called me! "Hey, ummm, I just got done with baseball practice and I'm hungry, and I was wondering if you wanted something to eat..."

5. How old are each of you?

21. Justin is 22 next month, me the next!

6. Did you go to the same school?

High school? Nope! College? War Eagle. :)

7. Are you from the same home town?

Kinda... we both claim Mobile. TECHNICALLY he's from Semmes, I'm from Grand Bay.

8. Who is the smartest?

Easy- Justin. I was bragging on his crazy smart brain today.

9. Who majored in what?

I'm an Human Development and Family Studies major. He's a Physical Education major. Hoping to get that administration degree in the next few years. Wouldn't he make a cute principal?

10. Who is the most sensitive?

Me me me! I'm a crier. I'm lucky he puts up with it. ha!

11. Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?

Not very! Um, Cozumel, Mexico.

12. Who has the worst temper?

Justin. I'm a close second though. :)

13. How many children do you want?

Lots! On our first date, I told him I wanted 7 kids. He looked at me and said he did too. BINGO. I don't know that we'll end up with that many, but we want to make a statement when we walk into a room. haha!

14. Who does the cooking?

I love to cook. I win this one!

15. Who is more social?

It depends! Justin would say me, but when we go out I'd say he has the most fun.

16. Who is the neat freak?

Justin! I'm working on it. I think dating me the past few years helped cure his OCD though. No lie. I should write a book.

17. Who is the most stubborn?
My favorite boy! Hard. Headed.

18. Who wakes up earlier?

Me! My parents never let us sleep past 8 growing up. We weren't allowed to "Waste the day". That sticks with you.

19. Where was your first date?
San Miguels. It's a mexican restaurant in Mobile. Hahaha

20. Who has the bigger family?
We have the same size immediate family... we are both kid number 2 of 3. Extended family? My ridiculously large family takes the cake, but he has a lot of family as well! We are so blessed.

21. Do you get flowers often?

Never. I told him on our first date that I would rather a guy spend his money on something I could keep then on flowers. He'll always hold me to that, haha. He has bought me flowers once.

22. How do you spend the holidays?

We split them between our families. This is the last Christmas where we aren't man and wife though. HOORAY!

23. Who is more jealous?

Me! I tell Justin it's just because he's so handsome and awesome and I don't think he realizes how badly the other ladies want him. ;)

24. How long did it take to get serious?
A month? hahaha, we definitely had the notebook type high school summer romance. So sweet. :) So lucky to have experienced so much with my best friend!

25. Who eats more?

Justin.

26. What do you do for a living?

Be poor and wonder how we are going to buy food next year. ;) haha, kidding. Photographer and future pe teacher/principal.

27. Who does the laundry?
Haha, I don't mind washing and folding but I don't iron. Justin thinks that will change when we are married, but I plan to make him iron forever. Sorry.

28. Who's better with the computer?

Me... Only because I live on it with photography.

29. Who drives when you are together?

Justin. He always tries to make me drive though. I get really anxious in traffic. I think he finds it humorous.

30. What is your song?

We have a few songs, they kind of go with each stage of our relationship. If I HAD to pick one, I'd say "smiling face" by James Taylor. Jus used to sing it to me before we said "I love you" so he could say it to me without saying it... if that makes sense haha. "Whenever I see your smiling face, I have to smile myself because I love youuuu. Yes I do."

2006

2010

I wanna get married...

2010-11-17T22:19:00.000-08:00

Justin would agree with me on the following statement-

This song was written for me.

Just give me a home to take care of, my husband to love on, and pretty little babies to play with!

Please and thank you. :)

P.S. isn't Nellie McCay FABULOUS? love!

How the west was won- War Eagle.

2010-11-15T18:03:00.000-08:00

What a weekend.

As a senior, this weekend marked my last home game as a student at Auburn University.

It seems like yesterday that Justin and I were little freshmen, about to enter into Jordan Hare for the first time as students. It wasn't our first Auburn game, and not even our first time to sit in the student section. But as official students, it was different. We'd entered into the Auburn family on a whole new level!

The past 4 years certainly have not disappointed. Our team has had it's ups and downs, but we've been so proud to stand behind them. We love football, and we love Auburn.

To finish up my tenure as a student ticket holder with the season Auburn has had has been nothing short of amazing. I'll be honest- we weren't expecting to be 11-0 right now. We weren't expecting to be number 2.

But we are, and that. is. awesome.

Saturday's game was full of emotion. If you pay any attention to sports at all, you know that our quarterback has been under fire for the past week and a half. You also know that Auburn is standing behind him. That's what this family is all about! Due to the events that had transpired, tensions were extra high on Saturday.

Before the game ever started, we experienced the most intense, awesome eagle flight that has ever happened. The excitement level went through the roof, and never wavered! I'll give you a few of my highlights, thanks to youtube.

Ok, this moment goes in my top 3 favorite auburn moments (it's up there with singing in the rain at the west virginia game last year). It was announced in the stadium on the screen that Mike Dyer had broken Bo Jackson's freshman record. If you have been around Auburn football, you know that is huge- Bo's the man. We went crazy. Then something incredible happened- watch for yourself:

ahhhhhhh!

I ALSO loved after how dirty UGA was playing, everyone started singing "goodbye" in the student section at the end of the game... and Nick Fairley started waving.

When the game was over, and everyone was celebrating, we swayed back and forth to sing lean on me- appropriate after the recent happenings.

Then they whipped out this baby, and I cried.

Then, we all linked up to sing the alma mater. My last time as a student in Jordan Hare. Did I mention that already? INSANE. Time flies by way to fast.

These people are what will make leaving Auburn so hard!

SEC WEST CHAMPIONS. BRING ON ATLANTA!!

war freaking eagle.

aisle doorway

2010-11-08T16:04:00.000-08:00

Excuse me while I drool over another awesome wedding.

Who volunteers to make me this doorway?

While you're at it, would you mind throwing together this awesome back drop?

And while obsessing, check out this location-

love.

See the rest of their wedding over at 100 layer cake!

Before the internet

2010-11-05T12:14:00.000-07:00

In class recently, a professor asked us what we did before the internet.

It would be a lot more logical for us to direct that question toward her. Why? Because these are a few things that I did before we had internet at my house:

I played with barbies.

I played Miss America with my sister and cousins Ashlie and Lyndsey.

I rode bikes around the neighborhood with Erica, Sean, and Trey.

I spent long summer days at the dolphin swim club.

I listened as my Mom read Little House on the Prairie out loud to us.

I made up games on Sean's trampoline.

I colored pictures in coloring books.

You get the picture.

My family got the internet in my home in 2nd grade. In the early days of my internet use, I searched for fan sites about the Hanson brothers, played games on Disney.com, and chatted on "ICQ" with my cousin Ashlie. (She got mad at me once because I accidentally wrote Ass instead of Ash. I was so embarrassed that my face burned and I got a little light headed, no lie.)

(We got our Gateway computer, the first computer of ours to get internet, the day before we left for this trip to Atlanta. L-R- Me, my cousins Ashlie and Sean, sister Erica, and Dad with my brother Destry on his shoulders. Summer 1996)

Granted, the internet we had back then was not nearly as advanced as it is today. First of all, you had to listen to the awful dial up sound that I'm sure you can all remember to this day. It is engrained in my memory like an old song I heard a thousand times. We didn't have flash, and social networking sites like facebook weren't yet in the realm of possibilities.

It really is awesome how far internet has come in such a short amount of time. However I find it crazy how something that comes second nature to my generation didn't exist 2 decades ago.

So, I'll pose that same question to you- what did YOU do before the internet?

"The Hills are Alive"

2010-11-03T15:45:00.000-07:00

Did you happen to catch Oprah's reunion of the cast of the Sound of Music?

If you didn't, don't worry! Someone posted Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3 on youtube. :)

Anyway, I love Julie Andrews and everything she is in, so of course a classic like the Sound of Music is no exception. I came across this wedding today on amorology weddings, and it is Sound of Music themed. GENIUS.

A few highlights that I LOVE:

"Girls in white dresses with blue satin sashes"

"Rain drops on roses"

"Brown paper packages tied up with string"

And last but not least, a "favorite things" table! I may have to do a play off of this table at my own wedding!

{photos via amorology}

I absolutely adore this idea! My mind went wild with it. I think I may have a theme for the next shower I throw! :)

Sweet Swing!

2010-11-03T15:00:00.000-07:00

A couple of months ago, I shared some things I thought would be nice to have in my future backyard.

Today, I'd like to add this swing to that list!

{via Ashley Meaders}

I know it was designed for a wedding, but I would have obsessed over it as a little girl. Can you imagine the giggles that could be had on it?

Note to future daughter- Mommy's got you covered!

Choosing to See

2010-11-01T17:32:00.001-07:00

If you are looking for a great read, pick up Choosing to See: A Journey of Struggle and Hope by Mary Beth Chapman!

I randomly picked it up one day in Books a Million when I was actually there to make a purchase for a class. I've always been intrigued and inspired by the Chapmans, as Justin and I one day hope to adopt. (Not to mention SCC's music is unbelievable!) When they lost their precious daughter Maria, I was crushed for them. The day that I saw this book in the store, Justin and I had been discussing the thought of serving in Maria's Big House of Hope for the Summer after we are married. When I saw the book, I took it as a sign!

It made me laugh, cry, challenged me, encouraged me... I could go on and on. Steven Curtis Chapman got him a good one when he snatched up Mary Beth. :)

Go get it. Read it. & have tissues close by! (I definitely went into the ugly cry on this one!)

Weekend in Oxford!

2010-11-01T07:03:00.000-07:00

I've always had a love affair with October. It's the heart of football season, I usually can begin wearing my scarves, there is a lot of candy involved, and I know that as soon as it ends, we're in full swing of the holiday season.

I also think Trick or Treating made October 31 one of my favorite days of the year, but I'll have to wait a few more years before I have kids to start that tradition back up, haha!

This October was still a feel good month, but a little too busy for me to just stop and soak it in. I was on the road to Mobile almost every weekend, working the whole time I was there, and spending my weeks in class/trying to catch up on editing/writing papers & studying for tests. (& having to avoid this blog of mine!)

HOWEVER, this weekend ended the month in the most perfect of ways! I set out with 3 boys to Oxford, MS on Friday afternoon. I didn't even bring a book bag or laptop. :)

My road trip partners- Top left- Judd. Top middle- Justin. Bottom- Jordan.

Justin and I stayed with my high school friend Katie. She graduated from Auburn a little over a year ago, and is now in grad school at Ole Miss. It was so nice of her to let us stay in her cute house! We loved it!

I didn't get a picture with Katie, but I got a picture of her at the game-

Thanks again for everything!

I didn't get any photos from Friday night, but Oxford definitely didn't disappoint. It is such a cute town with so much character! If you ever happen to be passing through MS, I would recommend stopping through!

Saturday morning I wasn't sure what to expect. We were the number 1 ranked team in the BCS, and playing at a SEC school. This is the first time in Auburn history that we hit #1 in the BCS, so we were excited to say the least!

I'd heard a lot about the grove before we went, so I was excited to see what it was all about. Basically, it is tons and tons of tents really close together with everyone tailgating. Cool concept, neat to see, but definitely not something I'd want to do every week. I felt a little claustrophobic!

My friend Amanda made the drive from Dallas to the game! It was so nice being able to catch up with her all weekend. Here we are in front of the grove.

One thing that we'd heard ahead of time was that there would be tents with chandeliers. Justin and our friend Jordan made it their mission to find as many chandeliers as possible! The found 5, and took pictures of all of them, but I'll just share one since this post is so picture heavy. :)

We experienced one of the most amazing away game tiger walks ever! There were probably 6 or 7000 people there waiting to meet the players as they got off the bus. Unbelievable!

After Tiger Walk, we all just enjoyed hanging out and taking in the sights and sounds of an Ole Miss game day until it was time to go in the stadium.

Judd and Amanda had seats with her Mom and Grandma, so Justin, Jordan and I went on a search for our seats. We found them right behind the Tubas, haha! It wasn't too bad because they put them down for each play, but I do have a new appreciation for the tubas after that game. They were a lot of fun! We tried hard to get a good reflection picture, but it was difficult because they dance around so much. Can you see us? :)

The game was awesome... we won 51-31.

After the game, we celebrated being number 1 a little bit more! Good thing, since the BCS dropped us to number 2, haha! It's OK, we are still so happy to be there, and so proud of our team!

SUCH A GOOD WEEKEND! We finished it off with a late night showing of Paranormal Activity. Well, everyone else watched... I mostly edited pictures and covered my ears when necessary. Even Justin spent a decent amount covering my eyes- he knows what a scaredy cat I am. :)

I hope you all had a fantastic weekend and Halloween! People no longer will consider me weird for listening to Christmas music!

WAR EAGLE!

Weekend Re-cap

2010-10-24T11:55:00.000-07:00

I'll admit that for a photographer, the pictures I have of my own life are severely lacking. I started this entry with that to remind myself that I should take up to date photos to share with my favorite readers. ;)

Here are a few highlights from the weekend:

I marked off number 16 on my list. My cousin Sherry was in town for a counselor's conference, and Justin and I met up with her so she could get a taste of the nationally recognized delicious treat that comes from our little town! FYI- in 2001, esquire magazine placed it in their 162 reasons it's great to be an american man. "1. The lemonade at Toomer's Corner (Auburn, Alabama): When God was a little boy and He needed extra money, He put up a card table outside His folks' house. This is what He sold."

(I also was able to catch dinner with Sherry the night before, so much fun!)

My best friend came to town! ( I cheated and used an old picture!) She brought along one of her college friends also. :) LOOOOVE spending time with my Sara!

Wes Loper Band was at skybar, which is actually totally irrelevant. But the night was so much fun, annnnd I don't want to give out more details than that. So the band name will have to do. :)
I gave into the craze and bought a power balance for both Sara and myself!
Auburn beat LSU. What else is to be said. War freaking Eagle. I love my school. I also love having the best senior football season everrrrr.

(Right after the win... sorry about the quality, shot it from my phone!)

I got to see Chelsea, a friend of Justin and myself from High School! She goes to LSU, and it was fun to catch up with both Chelsea and her sweet friends from Baton Rouge. :) (Hello to Carrie if you happen to read this again, haha!)
Our group of friends didn't sleep much.

Smart boy!

2010-10-21T20:18:00.000-07:00

I'm not even kidding when I say Justin had me from the beginning.

For an 11th grader, the kid had game.

One thing he started way back the first month we were together, was keeping up with the months we'd been dating. Every time it's the 21st, I get a wake up text that has the numbers of months we've been together. STILL! He's never forgotten. Not even once!

That's 54 months of remembering. Pretty impressive.

Any way, this morning he out did himself-

"Happy 4 and a 1/2 year anniversary!"

Someone did the math. :)

I've gotten to the point where it really is the simple things, haha!

Wedding Wednesday

2010-10-20T21:21:00.000-07:00

It's late, I'm tired, and it's been a long couple of weeks. I probably won't get much (any?) sleep tonight! BUT I couldn't leave you guys hanging when it's only week number 2 of wedding wenesdays!

SO tonight, I'll post a little something that is on my mind right now... alcohol.

Originally, Justin hated the idea of having beer at our wedding. Weird, because he loves beer. But apparently he feels like it can look trashy at a wedding.

I've tried to explain to him that having beer at a wedding does not make us this couple:

I came across this image recently, and couldn't help but smile. How OPPOSITE of trashy does this add make beer look?

I don't even like beer, but it makes me want a glass. I'd call that great advertising!

Any who, looks like we'll be having beer, wine, and a signature drink. Get. Ready. To. Party.

Only 1 year and 57 days to go, people. ;)

:)

2010-10-20T08:35:00.001-07:00

When I move home in May, I'll be able to hang out with my favorite niece anytime I want!

Anti-resolutions

2010-10-19T17:43:00.000-07:00

Things I know I should change, but don't want to. (Therefore I won't!)

I will continue to bake desserts more than I cook dinner.
I will continue to choose Grey's Anatomy or Glee over studying for my tests.
On that note, I will continue to study the absolute least amount possible.
I will continue to sneak Abraham table food, even though his Dad doesn't want me to.
I will continue to listen to Christmas music every day, even though it's October.
I will continue to scout out the perfect wedding details daily, even though it's a year away.
I will continue to hang out with all boys, because I'm too lazy to find a new group of girlfriends here in Auburn.
I will continue to skip class if I feel as though my sanity needs it.
I will continue to "accidentally" leave my wallet at home if I want Justin to buy my dinner.
I will continue to choose buying shoes over saving for my future rent.
I will continue to scour etsy and make purchases instead of saving for my future rent.
I will continue to inhale sweet tea like my life depends on it, even though I don't need the caffeine. Or the sugar.
I will continue to talk to Abraham like he knows what the heck I'm talking about.

I could go on and on. But I won't.

Excuse me while I pout over Glee being a rerun.

One of my bridesmaids

2010-10-16T20:52:00.001-07:00

... is supa' fly.

(Actually they all are, I just have video proof of Joelle!)

Proud of you Josen!

Who's in the house?

2010-10-15T14:37:00.001-07:00

UA/AU groom's cake

2010-10-14T18:01:00.000-07:00

This picture has been making it's rounds on facebook, and I love it!

For those of you who don't know, the rivalry between University of Alabama and Auburn University runs really really deep. That's for another day, another post!

Apparently, at this wedding, the groom was a Bama fan. The parents, who were paying for the groom's cake, were Auburn fans.

Brilliant.

War Eagle!

Wedding Wednesday

2010-10-13T20:36:00.000-07:00

HELLOOO blogging world!

I know, I know... I've been MIA.

I've been spending a lot of time doing this:

Actually, I've been spending more time on the other side of the camera, editing! 3 weddings on 3 weekends in a row.. with midterms and shoots in between.

What. Was. I. Thinking.

Regardless, the cute couple in the picture above were high school sweethearts and dear friends of mine. It was such an honor to be the photographer. I may or may not have cried at least 5 times throughout the day! It is just so nice to see a couple who has been together long enough to know each other inside and out before they walk down the aisle... and to be able to do it with a big smile and no reservation. The whole day was sweet sweet sweet.

Holly made a gorgeous bride! (Not a surprise, she's always been beautiful!) She was completely relaxed too.

Matt is a man that loves his bride! He smiled all day, and looked at his girl with so much love in his eyes! This is one of my favorite during ceremony shots, ever!

My favorite moment of the day? When they were walking out, Matt and I high fived! It was a full circle moment for 2 old friends. When did we become old enough to get married and be a real photographer? Life comes at you fast!

Anyway, I got completely side tracked! If you want to see more about their wedding, watch my photography blog for the details, coming to a blogger site near you! :)

WEDDING WEDNESDAY

I've decided to start doing "Wedding Wednesdays". Mostly, this will keep me from posting about my wedding that is still a little over a year away every day. You're welcome.

Today's obsession?

Hay bale seating! (Erica, I know your eyes just got real big, but bear with me!)

We are having our wedding outside. Justin and I both love bluegrass music, and we're going to have a 5 piece bluegrass band playing our ceremony music. (Theoretically, we haven't booked them yet!) Our wardrobes are going to be fairly formal, and so we need ways to tie it all together. This is going to be how it is for our whole day.. mixing formal with casual/southern Christmas! (Sounds crazy, but stay with me on this. I promise next December it will all come together!) Remember my favorite inspiration board from the perfect palette? It's still my fav. :)

With that in mind, I just couldn't picture formal white chairs at our location. (Plus, I could use the money we'll be saving to go towards the part of my budget where I may or may not have gone over when I booked our photographer... haha!)

I couldn't find exactly what I'm going for, but I do like how neat the fabric is in the front picture. Mine will either be black or red, and it will go farther down on the hay bales. (Don't want all my guests getting poked! Yikes!

My Real Wedding from The Knot and The Nest. <-- via

I won't ramble anymore. :) I hope your hump day went well!

What if?

2010-09-28T19:09:00.001-07:00

Just another War Eagle weekend. :)

2010-09-27T07:18:00.001-07:00

The past 2 weekends I got a special treat.. last weekend, my sister Erica came up for the game.

This week, she made the trip again!

This weekend was just really, really good. I needed it. This week of school is going to be crazy, and I have to prepare myself for a wedding this weekend, as well as the following 2 weekends. Thrilled to be working, sad that I'll be missing out on football games, but being 4-0 so far heals that pain a little. :)

Guys enjoying the tailgate

Sunset in the Hare before the game!

Erica's boyfriend, Chance, came to visit this weekend as well!

War Eagle. 4-0.. so proud.

Glee premiere!

2010-09-21T17:17:00.000-07:00

SO happy that my favorite show is BACK! My thoughts:

-New football coach is kind of scary. BUT she has a nice side somewhere. I think.

-Sunshine is absolutely adorable.

Makes me miss my favorite foreign exchange students from senior year!

Really though, I LOVE Cherice. (The girl who plays the new character.) I've followed her through Oprah for a while! Check her out:

Um, did Finn really try out for Cheerios? hahahaha

It's ok Finny. You're still too cute for words.

And maybe my celebrity crush. (It's ok ladies- Justin gets Erin Andrews. I get Cory Monteith)

He sings. I swoon.

Rachel Berry definitely wore this dress tonight:

Besides liking her wardrobe, I'm digging the bangs.

(What? His picture happened to be connected to hers! haha!)

Next week: BRITNEY! I die.

Happy Tuesday to all!

Prayer Request!

2010-09-16T18:18:00.000-07:00

Prayer request for a sweet little friend of mine! She found out recently that she had relapsed, and started chemo again. Today, her leg was amputated.

Her facebook status from last night said

"Im nervous about the surgery tomorrow but I know Hes with me. Tomorrow that cancer will get out of me! Again!"

Fortunately, she came out of surgery without complications! Please pray for continued healing in the coming days and weeks. Also, please pray for her spirit as she adjusts to such a big change! I know she is anxious to getting back to being with her friends, and doing regular 14 year old things.

Cancer Sucks!

Use me, Lord!

2010-09-15T10:31:00.000-07:00

A few days ago, I randomly came across Ecclesiastes 3 while reading. It is one of my very favorite chapters of the whole bible! When I was reading it God laid it on my heart to share it with a friend. We'll call her McKenna.

Here's the thing- I didn't share that with McKenna. I thought about it, and then went on about my day.

Why? Because sometimes I have trouble sharing my faith. I've always struggled with voicing the things God shares with me. I think this is partly because of the family I was raised in- everyone's spiritual life is kept to themselves for the most part. We have always treated it very privately. I'm not faulting my parents, but I do think this is part of the reason I get so anxious when it comes to talking about these things out loud. (All of my closest friends would tell you that this has been a struggle of mine for a long time!)

I talked to Justin about this, and how I really want to work hard to move past this anxiety. We even discussed that when we have our own family, we want nightly bible time just like the Duggars! I want all of our kids to always feel that they can openly share what is on their heart.

So yesterday, I felt Him again asking me to share that chapter with McKenna.

I didn't call and eloquently talk with her about the reasons it may be important for her to read this. Instead, I sent her a text message from my 11:00 class.

"Hey! I felt like God wanted me to tell you to read Ecclesiastes 3 the other day, and I didn't... but I felt that again today, so there you go! Praying for you, love you!"

Her reply?

"Amazingly Bayleigh, that is exactly what I needed to hear at this exact moment! Thanks for letting God speak through you to me!"

Funny, her reply was exactly what I needed to hear.

I tell you all this to let you know that I'm trying to rid myself of this struggle! There are so many ministry opportunities I've missed out on, because I was too uncomfortable to just speak up. Please pray with me that those missed opportunities become less and less, and that I can be a better tool for my Lord!

There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven:

a time to be born and a time to die,

a time to plant and a time to uproot,

a time to kill and a time heal,

a time to tear down and a time to build,

a time to weep and a time to laugh,

a time to mourn and a time to dance,

a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,

a time to embrace and a time to refrain,

a time to search and a time to give up,

a time to keep and a time to throw away,

a time to tear and a time to mend,

a time to be silent and a time to speak,

a time to love and a time to hate,

a time for war and a time for peace.

-Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

Another reason to look forward to having children...

2010-09-14T17:39:00.000-07:00

You know what? I like turtles too.

Lean on me

2010-09-14T14:40:00.000-07:00

Love my school, love our boys!

War Eagle!

Sister Wives

2010-09-13T20:31:00.000-07:00

Has anyone seen the previews for the new TLC show, Sister Wives?

I have to admit, shows about polygamy are intriguing to me! I think it's because it is something that is just so foreign to me. A few years ago I watched the first couple of seasons of Big Love, but then we stopped getting HBO.

I love my girlfriends, and I am willing to share a lot of things with them! However, I can guarantee you that my man is not one of them. I don't know how they do it!

Will you be watching? I'm sure I'll spend much of the time with my mouth gaped open over phrases like this:

"Some people think 'how do you feel when he's off with another woman and you know they're having sex?' Well gosh darn it they better."

Seriously? Do you think she REALLY feels that way? Are they REALLY happy with this lifestyle? I'm so confused!

Will you be watching?

New Look!

2010-09-13T19:53:00.000-07:00

Thanks so much to Becca at Jumping Jax Designs!

She gave the Baygel Bites some love, and I'm so excited! I used her for my photography blog, and when Baygel Bites needed a face-lift, I know she was my girl!

Thanks again, Becca for a job well done!

I hope you've all had a good Monday. :)

P.S.- I have officially fallen to the fad of knot pages! I love to read others, so I threw one together for Justin and I. Stuff will be added later, (about us section, bridal party, etc), but it's up for now! Erica (my sister) says that makes us legit. I guess the wedding is actually going to happen now. :)

Check it out, if you please. :)

Checking off number 4!

2010-09-12T19:21:00.000-07:00

The time has come where my 6 season box set of Sex and the City no longer has any unwatched discs. I'm not sure whether to be proud to be crossing off an item on my list, or be ashamed that it is one of the first ones I managed to finish.. (that's a lot of tv time!) but either way, it's done!

I think one thing that really surprised me about the show, is how much the characters develop overtime. They start out young, single, and flighty... and by the last episode they are much more mature, 2 are married, and all are in committed relationships. Most importantly, they are happy, and still by each other's sides!

It was so much fun watching these ladies from season 1

blossom into the beauties of season 6.

I'll admit it- I laughed, I cried, and I loved watching them live their fabulous NYC lives. From hook ups to breakups, expensive shoes, marriages, divorces, pregnancy, miscarriages, adoptions, and even a breast cancer battle, it was quite the adventure!

It was fun, ladies. Please film a 3rd movie.

~~4. Watch all 6 seasons of sex and the city (6/6)~~

Save the Dates

2010-09-11T19:59:00.000-07:00

Justin had to go to Mobile yesterday for a wardrobe emergency.

No, seriously! He is in a wedding in October, and when his suit came in, it was too long. So, off to Mobile he traveled!

This has left me a weekend with three of my best friends- Sex and the City, chocolate ice cream, and wedding planning. Someone really should save me from myself!

As I was trolling the knot, I visited the board for other December 2011 girls. (I know, unbelievable! I'm not the only bride who believes in the power of a long engagement!) There was a thread about save-the-dates, and when you should send them. A lot of them talked about sending them out this holiday season, since so many people plan their holidays out a year in advance.

So. True.

I'd planned to send them out in July, so this threw me for a loop. I haven't put much thought into save the dates... I'm way behind!

What's a girl to do? Go directly to photoshop of course! I threw together a quicky magnet, headed to vistaprint, and done! They will be here in 14 days. (No reason to pay the big bucks on shipping when I'm not in a rush!)

(If you know me in real life, that's the lovely little photo that will look back at you for the next year! That is if you choose to put it on your refrigerator, of course. Feel free to toss it.. I got a deal!)

I still have to put together something to mail with the magnet, but I have plenty of time for that.

Here's hoping Justin will make his trip home a constructive one, and come back with his parents' guest list!

Dreaming of a honeymoon

2010-09-10T18:45:00.000-07:00

One fun part about having a looong engagement, is that I am able to plan out the littlest details. Believe me, by the time the wedding gets here, there will be no stone unturned!

I feel like I go through little "planning spurts", where I may spend days scouring the web planning various parts of the ceremony/reception. Then, I'll take a little break for a couple of weeks, until my next inspiration hits. It is so much fun!

Tonight, however, I'm working on the honeymoon! As many of you know, Justin and I will be spending Christmas 2011 in NYC for our honeymoon. 15 months away, and I'm already playing around with the details. I. Have. A. Problem.

Justin knows this, and chooses to marry me regardless.

(I think that means I'm lucky.)

Anywho, so as to NOT to get overwhelmed once we are in NYC, I've begun looking into the best restaurants, museums, shows, etc. ESPECIALLY those special to Christmas. I may or may not have purchased two books to assist me in this endeavor while I was in books a million yesterday. :)

I'll be going to sleep dreaming of a white Christmas!

Danielle- Why I Wear Gold

2010-09-07T15:24:00.000-07:00

As I've mentioned a few times this month, September is childhood cancer awareness month! This is the story of my friend, Danielle, and why she wears gold.

Teenage girls are supposed to be boy crazy; supposed to be carefree and selfish. They are not supposed to hear the words "you have cancer". In August of 2002, I was the first girl described. Living in Gulf Breeze Florida, I felt on top of the world. 10th grade and my learners permit where the next things on my list to conquer and it never crossed my mind that those things would become arbitrary. In September, I started to feel sick with fevers and occasional stomach pains. There were lots of excuses for these symptoms; I was faking sick to get out of school, I had a cold, it was that "time of the month", and of course that I was pregnant. (none of which, especially the latter were even possibly true) After one doctor dismissed me that I was lying about my sexual history, my mom got fed up and took me to the hospital. Once again I was given the third degree by an OB/GYN and a social worker about the possibility I was pregnant. Let me just be candid and say... YOU HAVE TO HAVE SEX TO BE PREGNANT, and I was not, but no one believed me. Finally, an ultrasound came to my rescue and validated what I had been saying all along. Unfortunately it was a tumor on my ovary they found, and given the chance, I would have opted for the child.

Going through this ordeal is hard for anyone but especially a fifteen year old girl. I was old enough to understand what was happening and have it shape the person I've become, but I was too young to get any kind of support from my peers. I wasn't lucky enough to undergo treatment where there were a lot of other children. I was a child trapped with this very adult cancer, in an adult hospital, interacting with adults on a daily basis. I grew up very fast. I believe that happens with a lot of children who have the misfortune of understanding what it's like to lose your hair before you have your first real kiss. Please don't misunderstand me if I am sounding like I didn't have an incredible support system, because I did. My parents, grandparents, and a couple really great friends helped me through it all, they just didn't understand 100% and in that, I felt alone.

I walked around for a long time with holes in my heart. A couple things helped, the American Cancer Society's Relay for Life began my healing process with the incredible program they have to celebrate survivors. The Make a Wish Foundation helped by granting me a wish to California and meeting the cast of the TV show that got me through the long hours of chemo. Finally, at the age of 21 I was given the opportunity to volunteer with Camp Smile-A-Mile and that is an experience I will never forget. I was able to meet other teenage girls who knew EXACTLY what I had been through. I cannot describe the magic of this place, of the people who give their time or of the kids that grace US volunteers with their presence. No words will do. But I can truly say I was finally healed after that initial week. I wear gold for them. I wear gold because those kids understand what IT'S like. They are my heroes, my warriors and peers. I can be a kid around them and sometimes that's the only time I am allowed to visit the part of my childhood I missed out on. They are my heart, my soul, and I will wear gold to honor the members of the club no one wanted to be a part of.

Danielle (in the purple t-shirt) with some campers. They had "Bieber Fever"!

Thank you, Danielle for helping to spread awareness! Love you!

:)

2010-09-06T09:26:00.000-07:00

I hope you all had a great weekend, and are able to enjoy the holiday today! Things have been marvelous here in Auburn. We won our first game, and it was just an awesome day! We are very proud of this guy (the rest of the team as well!):

I'm so excited to watch this season unfold!

I also wanted to share with you a article and video featuring one of my favorite people, Bayleigh Phillips! I love this girl. She's one of the reasons I wear gold!

View the article here.

Isn't she awesome? If you want to keep up with her story, or leave her a special message, visit her caringbridge.

♥

Book Club! Week Four

2010-09-06T09:04:00.000-07:00

Week four of book club is here, and I feel like I can't type my responses fast enough so that I can go finish the book! haha!

If you're interested in joining us, hop on over to book beginnings and book ends. We'll be starting a new book soon!

The Secret Life of CeeCee Wilkes, Chapter 36-50

1. Have your feelings about Tim changed through out this last section of chapters?
Yes and no. By taking the fall for CeeCee, I have a little more respect for him. His crime completely turned her life upside down once, and it's thoughtful of him not to do it again. However, the kidnapping completely wrecked the lives of the governor's family, and he was wrong to have brought CeeCee into it in the first place. I feel like he's still a slime ball, just a bit more thoughtful of a slimeball.

2. Do you agree with Cory and her behavior as an adult and her life with Ken? Is she justified in cutting her mother and father out of her life?
Not at all. You never desert for family for a man. If she'd had a terrible childhood, then ok. But her parents loved her, and took care of her needs. I think she'll regret it one day.

3. At what point do you think Cory decided to spend less time with her mother?
I think through therapy, it was recommended that she not depend SO much on her mom. That was great- her dependance was almost debilitating. I think that it was when Ken came into her life that she decided to completely cut her Mom out. We've seen her tendency to completely depend on someone's approval and direction- at this point, she's let Ken take on that role.

4. What do you think is Eve's biggest fear?
Losing her baby girl. She knows how hard it would be for Cory to find out about her life. Who WOULDN'T be furious with Eve if they found out about the situation they'd come from?

5. When the story about Genevieve's body came out, what would you have done if you were Eve? Just sat back and watched things unfold? Come forward? Would you tell Jack?
I'm not sure. I know that living in the stress she's living in is not a good way to live. However, initially, I probably would have a similar reaction. Just watching how everything would unfold, and waiting to see what happens next. I'm sure I would have to confess at least to Jack, and find out his opinion on the situation.

6. Do you think Eve should tell Jack and confess? Why?
I definitely think she should tell Jack. It is time. I also think she should turn herself in. It is time for Cory to learn the truth, and that's not something that can happen without her cover being blown.